Definitely do not let the conversation pass around 7 messaging exchanges before mentioning the date.
After 7 exchanges the average conversation tends to lose its muster. End the conversation shortly after making plans for a date Shortly after you ask her out on a date is an ideal time to end the conversation because momentum plays a big role during the early stages of dating. Passive Main Takeaway: This did receive some responses but give the person you message something to work with. Informal Main Takeaway: Being informal experienced zero success. Inquisitive Main Takeaway: Use questions to start the conversation and to keep it going but don’t be excessive, got it?
This article discusses my general approach for first date conversations with online dating.If you’re instead looking for a list ideas, check out my article on First Date Questions and Conversation Starters.For all my shyness, I never found it very difficult to have conversations on a first date.Second, I would memorize topics that I could talk about.These two approaches worked very well together ensuring that (at least on first dates) there were never any awkward pauses.
It isn’t that I gained confidence, I just planned ahead.