Strippers and hookers are not the type of girls that I date, so I will not be referring to that in this post. My situation is a little different than most foreigners here in Colombia.
I am actually Colombian, my family is Colombian, and more importantly (aside from my height, 6’2″) I look Colombian.
She was very into me from the start – we simply sat on the bed, drank wine, and talked on Google Translate. I ended up seeing her several more times throughout the week and she came up to Santa Marta to spend a day at the beach with us. Met off Tinder, and then told me she just wanted to meet people and talk. She and her cousin were staying at a nice resort a ten minute cab ride away from our apartment in Santa Marta.
I kicked her out after about 45 minutes, and she had the gall to ask for a taxi, too. So we all rolled over there…but they were just boring as hell.
Masculine Profiles and El Conquistador can testify to this. This site is a great place to meet Colombian chicas. When going out, usually in a blazer at a minimum, with a pocket square and a nice watch. I’m very sociable in general, so it feels natural for me to talk to various people throughout the night.
As when I posted about Hungarian girls, here is a quick glimpse of who I am and the style of game I run. For dates that girls came straight over I usually just wore basketball shorts and a t-shirt. My lack of Spanish made both day and night approaching difficult.
That’s over two hours of work just for a round-trip taxi ride at no more than 10 minutes each way. The American girl bullshit game of having to warm them up every step of the way is non-existent. Masculine Profiles warned me about this before the trip, and he was dead right. I called myself a fat gringo all the time and girls just lapped it up.
What I’m saying is – if they ask for taxi money, don’t hesitate to give it to them. If they like you, they’ll be touching you within three minutes of meeting in very subtle ways. If everything is going well, you can kiss Colombian women within fifteen minutes of meeting. My Colombian girlfriend was saying she loved me after three dates.
The best dates I had were all with Colombian women who spoke no English. There were several that cancelled on me two minutes before we were supposed to meet. You need to text them throughout the entire process. According to Glassdoor, girls on the “Monster Ambassador” team make roughly an hour.
When I first arrived here, there wasn’t yet a complete guide to dating paisa women.
NOTE: I wrote this post about my experience dating women in Medellin back in April of 2013.
There’s something to be said for being forced to communicate with body language and touch . The best advice I can give is to simply be wary of Colombian women that do speak English, as there’s a decent chance they’re just meeting you to have a free drink and practice their English, with no intention of any sexual relations. My Colombian girl made the equivalent of ~ a day for an eight hour shift (70mil Colombian Peso [COP]).
You can get a free trial of a great language tool—Rocket Spanish. It was a 20mil round trip taxi between her house and my apartment. They all know how to dance, and are very comfortable with human touch. Don’t hesitate to make fun of yourself or your poor Spanish.
The day after I left she was at the Embassy trying to figure it out. So do yourself a favor: go to Colombia, and find some beautiful Colombian women.