Well, two male co-workers were talking about online dating and mentioned that they’d never contact a girl that was in that class or “curvy”, because any time they’d met one in the past, she’d been much heavier than in her pictures.I’m wondering if this is why guys will view me a lot, but won’t make contact.All we can do is tackle this confidently, and not get too thrown by the many bumps in the road.The man who wants you is going to WANT a curvy girl.
However, after talking to your male co-workers and observing that you’re not being contacted, you have to be asking yourself – is it REALLY in my best interests to tell the truth if 95% of guys are going to dismiss me for doing so?The last time I stressed out over this alleged holiday was in fifth grade, when the printer ran out of ink in the middle of printing cards for my classmates.Man, they really drill in the message early with this nonsense: Maybe that’s why dating as an adult so often feels like a class we’re flunking. With rare exception, dating is considered a pain in the ass, but a necessary hurdle if you want to advance to the next romantic level.If I’m a 50-year-old man who makes less than ,000/year, I’m going to be somewhat handicapped.And few people face more discrimination than women in their 50’s and 60’s, who only seem to get email from men who are MUCH older. This is the explanation for why women don’t tell the truth about their bodies.
But having a larger body is not a deal-breaker — though it may seem so.