9) If you were to walk into a crowded bar where everyone was busy talking, went and sat in a corner and meekly said Hi nobody would notice you the same applies here don't just say Hello all.... Hi Miss Bonnie ( hint, I dislike being called Mistress Bonnie unless I own you) 10) Being worthy. Perhaps you should do whatever it takes to make yourself worthy!
Also, don't submit, even in cyber unless you actually mean it. A lot of cyber relationships are just as important as real life to the people involved and they take them just as seriously.If you expect it to shift into real time, for gawd sake, try to find someone who has more to offer you than just D/s.D/s is fun, D/s is good, but D/s is also not all there is in life.Upper case does NOT always imply female in this chatroom, just as lower case is NOT always male. Its a major turn off when a guy comes in saying ' I want to serve! they are JUST looking for attention why give them what they want???Put these people on Ignore and talk about something else.
that most submissive men are very MUCH Men, they just know what they like,which is to please their Mistress in EVERY Way possible (within their limits) 12) Honesty is VERY important online, if you are married ADMIT it, there are a lot of other married folks online looking for something non-committal Just be open and honest, its the best thing to do .