I joined because a couple I work with found each other on
Initially, with zero guidance and no previous experience online dating with provided no instant gratification for me.
I’d try to do it in, what I thought, was a non-pressuring way.
I’d ask him things out of “curiosity” or “caring.” Or just because my schedule was so busy that “I needed to know how to plan my week.”One of the things I discovered, and made myself do, in order to get out of this self-destructive pattern was four words: Instead of waiting around for a man to make plans or sit around analyzing why he’s constantly coming forward and then moving away, I started going on casual dates with several different men.
The most important reason for dating more than one man until you are exclusive is that it gives YOU the opportunity to find the best partner.
The fact that you will become more attractive to the men you’re dating is a bonus.
Hi Brad – I just wanted to thank you for putting this site together!