If you’re serious about her, make an extra effort to let her know her age isn't important to you.Tell her the characteristics you admire about her most and the specific reasons you're attracted to her. I must admit the latter, known as Cougar Dating, was a little hard for me to wrap my head around even as a Dating Coach. Believe it or not, lots of men want to date us -- older men, men our age and even younger men are trying to catch our eye. Back when I was in my 40s, younger men would write me online all the time and I'd always say, "Are you looking for a mom? " They just felt younger women were too high maintenance for them and had far too much drama in their lives. Yes, I'd dated men three to five years younger but it felt like men 10 to 20 years younger were living on a different planet. Older women have limited patience for the shenanigans of youth, so stick to these five no-fail rules and you will be dating older women in no time.
We're speaking in broad generalizations here, of course—age doesn’t say much about who you are as a person, and not all older women are the same. But generally speaking, one of the greatest traits women gain as they age is self-assurance.So you’re on the hunt for your very own Ashton Kutcher-Demi Moore moment, or maybe something a little longer-lived.Either way, you're not the only bloke to venture out of your age group in search for an older woman.In short, all that cougar crap online, on TV, and elsewhere is lighting up in her brain.This is why it’s important to make sure you’re not with her simply for the novelty of it.
" Who knew that as women over 50, we'd have so many options to choose from when it came to dating men?