Rather, he moves from one online-created connection to the next, or back and forth between many, and barely if ever have to leave the house.
Internet dating enables him not to engage in a meaningful way.
Sometimes he will admit to the women he finds online that he is using Internet dating as a diversion, and sometimes he won’t.
However, with patience and fortitude there may be the possibility that a substantive relationship can develop.
(This category may also include the desire to act out sexual fantasies and fetishes that couldn’t previously be realized).
Interestingly, fantasy can be so powerful for him that when reality fails to compete, he finds ways to fade away.
Or perhaps something pivotal is missing in his relationship, and he wants to be reminded or reassured there is life beyond his current confines.
Here is the collected consensus of 11 categories of men you might encounter when dating online: 1.
Just Looking He fantasizes about a beautiful love life or sex life but has too much anxiety to actually let any potential connection leave his protective computer screen.
He’s just not ready to involve himself in real-time dating with people he may connect with online.
There are a multitude of reasons why this happens, but at the core, he is not ready or able to embark in a substantive relationship, regardless of what his profile says.
Nonetheless, if you’re looking for a fun couple of months, look no further. He realizes that the easiest way to access older women is online.